OK
I HAVE A REAL FIX!
You just have to unplug a connector in the knee blocker panel.
Once you remove plastic panel, there is a metal one under that. Remove that as well. (They take 1/4 inch drives)
Now if you were to be sitting in the drivers seat, your knee would point directly towards this plug. It is black and is mounted parallel to the direction of the vehicle.
It has several wires, some green with white stripes, most importantly the red/white and the black, control the module (Thanks to Tomcat)
If you unplug the whole connector, it disables the whole "sentinel" lights and your HIDs go back to functioning like stock halogens.
I am not sure what the other wires going to connector do, how ever I went on a post-removal drive, and everything works so far...
The whole process takes no more than 10 minutes.
PM me if you need more help.
And Thanks again Tomcat for your help, couldn't have done it with out you.