I've had 35s on my 30 for almost 3 years now. 4.56, Chromo shafts, loc right locker, big steering, wj swap, and a truss from one side to the other. The only failure I've had was when I broke a outer shaft.
Recently, when I took the axle completely apart, I noticed a hairline crack in the carrier. I just replaced the carrier with intentions of going to 1-tons by next year...
Like they've said, as long as you're conservative on the throttle, you should be fine.