Not to mention that since you dont have a second vehicle to use while your XJ is out of commission, you can just do this in the driveway one weekend with a standard set of wrenches and a harmonic balancer puller (which you can borrow from the parts store or buy pretty cheap).
If memory serves me correctly (or just give me til this weekend when Ill be doing it anyhow) for the front seal and the HB, you need to use the HB puller, it looks like a turkey foot, and you pull the HB (pretty straight forward). You've obviously already pulled the belt off and then you pull the 13( i think) bolts off the timing chain cover.
Then if your rear main seal (RMS) needs attention, then you pull the oil pan (before you replace the TC cover) and the 7th cap. replace that seal and re install cap (being sure to torque it correctly).
THEN you put the TC cover back on with it's seal (this way the oil pan goes onto the bottom part of the seal easier) and then the Oil pan, and then the HB (Oil pan and HB can interchange, it doesnt matter)
Then you replace the belt and tighten it........It sholud take.......4 hours?
I've never done a RMS from the bottom side, but a TC cover and HB are easy; the pan can be tricky and you just might need a few more hands....but it'll buff.
Be sure that when you remove the pan to use a gasket scraper to loosen the seized on gasket because that thing is HARD to get off and you can bend the pan lip if you arent careful.
Also, make sure ALL gasket surfaces are super cleaned off/ oil free. done use a scotchbrite, cause that would destroy an engine when inside I understand.....brake cleaner and a scraper are a good choice though.
If you have any other Q's then ask, or use the ever popular search function everyone always is raving about (I never do........just kidding, but for real it is hard to find what you are looking for on the normal search function here. I understand you can use google somehow, and I have used that before, but I dont recall how. Search for it, hahaha....good luck)
That's a basic overview of the job ahead of you, and I have condensed it and made it sound super easy (Not exactly HARD, just time consuming and in need of finese). Anyhow, I may have left out a small step here or there.
Let us know how it turns out.