One side of the torque bar is attached to the body, the other to the trans case. When you spacer down the cross member the linkage relationships change.
I can't post a link to a set of installation instructions that have great photos of the adapter plate, their server is down for maint, but PM me your email and I will send a copy to you.
If that doesn't solve your problem, Novak makes a shifter for the NP 231 ($150), or Advanced Adapters makes bracket adapter for the 231, a lot less money but you may need a TJ part to use it.
If you have a NP 242 there may be other solutions out there.