There should be a thread on here titled 'Bastard Pack' I believe, just do a quick search for (bastard pack*) and it should come up.
If you're going to stick with your short arms for the lower control arms, i'd either go adjustable or get some LCA drop brackets like the one Rough Country sells for pretty cheap. You don't want those things at a poor angle. It kills the ride. I had an 87' with a 4.5 RC lift, and the control arms were at a very poor angle, it rode like a brick, no give at all.
People say to get an SYE typically if you lift more than like 2.5-3". Even then you may not feel vibes or ever have issues, but it's one of those preventative things. Do it now, and you could save yourself a headache down the road, and if someone sells a kit for $200, that's pretty dang good.
Bastard packs have a few varieties, depending on what front springs you run. A common one is from a Ford F150, which typically gives you a bit stiffer ride as the springs are meant for a beefer vehicle used for hauling. If you search for bastard pack, you should come up with a number of articles.
Going the cheap route, i'd definately get some decent shocks so the ride isn't murder and get your LCAs at a better angle post lift.