personally, i wouldn't swap it till i broke it, but you are planning on 35's.... why not 32's? i've been able to go everywhere i wanted on 32's... do you have to be the bigggest xj in town? if it's about wheelin, maybe try 32's. they're cheaper, you don't hafta lift it as much, and you don't necesarily have to regear, maybe just try to get a little more power from your motor. with a 4.5 inch lift, you don't need to go sye, and you won't need upper control arms unless you break the stock ones. on the comanche, i have seen people wheel hard on a welded d35, and never break anything. mj's don't have a ton of weight in the back, however. if you have a ton of money, sure, swap to an 8.8 or d44 and lift it for 35's. you can get a stronger axle from the junkyard for cheaper than building a dana35. i wish i had done that to begin with, but nonetheless, if you don't want to regear, weld anything, or get an sye, you can survive on 32's with a dana 35. i've done it for years, even before i locked and regeared my girly little axle.